Our first taste of Eurocamp, Italian style! – part i

The half term holiday around the Spring Bank Holiday is by definition in and around the last Monday in May and from a work point of view traditionally the quietest of the School holidays.  The Premier League season has finished, the summer tournaments have not yet started and so is the perfect opportunity to carry on the tradition, started last year, of going abroad with the children.  That is what we thought when we booked this holiday last December, however that was before our Channels department (which I am the Head of) expanded to incorporate a new channel and a pop up service both to start in the middle of this period on the 1st June!  Therefore the weeks leading up to the holiday I was working hard trying to ensure that everything that could be in place was in place and let everyone know that I was out of the office, without access to emails (a deliberate decision) but would be contactable by the 1990’s mobile communication methods – phonecall or text message.

As mentioned we booked this holiday at the end of last year and initially we were going to go down the same route as last year and opt for the easy solution of ‘all-inclusive’.  However, being a family of five this becomes expensive.  Not many ‘all-inclusive’ resorts caters for 3 children and thus you are forced down the route of renting two rooms, nominally with one of the children in the second room on their own – in practise that would mean all five of your fitting into a too small space with the luggage in a room of its own.  In addition to not being practical this boosted the price significantly and even with generous in shop discounts.  The fact that we were trying to be good and book during school holiday time and not the week before or the week after also added to make the complete package far beyond our budget.  Therefore we looked for an alternative.

Eurocamp, founded in 1973 (a good year), have accommodation in over 180 different parks across Europe, and seemed like a good alternative.  Some of the sites looked as good, if not better, than many of the ‘all-inclusive’ resorts that we had looked at, all for a fraction of the price.  Obviously, one has to pay for flights and food separately but after doing our sums it seemed that we would make significant savings.  Indeed it was cheaper to take a holiday in Italy (with flights) than just the accommodation on a caravan site in the UK.  We decided that we would like to take the children to Italy for it is probably Lucinda’s and my favourite European country.  Éowyn had visited once before in 2010 for the wedding of friends of mine Simon and Stefania, and I suppose, technically Amélie had too, since she was a foetus at the time.  Lucinda did the homework and found a fantastically looking site in the form of Pra’Delle Torri in the Veneto region of Italy.  North of Venice itself, Pra”Delle Torri lies just outside the seaside town of Caorle on the Adriatic coast.

Obviously, the websites can only show you so much.  The reviews all seemed favourable with the only downside being a common complaint regarding Eurocamp accommodation in that the caravans themselves feel a little tired, but an overall review of 8.6 out of 10 seemed to swing it.  Pra’Delle Tori is one of the larger campsites on the Eurocamp books and had an impressive array of facilities including its own beach and a fantastic pool complex, more of which later.  So with the accommodation in mind we then had to get there.  My idea of driving across Europe wasn’t accepted so we looked for cheap flights.  Of the usual suspects Ryanair flew to Treviso airport and so, with a little trepidation,we decided to book flights on the budget airline.  Ryanair offer free hold luggage for children and so, for once, having three children came in handy as we could fit all five of our holiday needs into three lots of 20kg hold suitcases.  That saved a little money but we paid extra to book priority tickets – well worth the money in hindsight!  Nevertheless the accommodation plus the flights still worked out to be favourable compared to hiring an equivalent caravan for the same period in the U.K., such is the premium that parents with children in full-time education have to pay – but I have had that rant before!

The third part required to complete the holiday travel was a hire car in Italy.  With three children and three suitcases in needed to a practical car rather than anything fancy.  Hence when we found a Ford Focus Estate for £12/day there was no choice to make. Large enough for all three children to sit across the back (thankfully Éowyn is 136cm tall and thus does not need a booster seat) and a boot big enough for all our luggage it fitted perfectly.

Thus, riding on the back of the aforementioned incredibly busy period at work my mind wasn’t really focused on the holiday in the lead up and I only packed after finishing work late on the Thursday (Lucinda had packed for herself and the kids – I only had to sort myself out!).  We had decided to leave on the Friday (taking the kids out of school) and return on the Monday (again taking them out of school) for two major reasons.  The first was that last year a week seemed too short a holiday.  A fortnight would have probably felt too long, but a week was too short so with the extra day added to either end of the school break we could have a ten-day holiday and see how we felt about that time frame.  The second reason was that the flights were considerably cheaper on the Friday and Monday respectively compared to the Saturday and Sunday, one seventh of the price in fact.  When you multiply that up by 10 flights (return flights for the five of us) that was a considerable amount of money saved, even though it meant higher bills for the accommodation and car hire.

Therefore Friday morning the car was packed and we headed around the M25 towards Stansted at the tail end of the rush hour (another advantage of sorting everything out yourself is the fact that you can choose your departure time rather that the usual ohmygod it is early o’clock that is the usual alarm call for chartered planes departing for all-inclusive resorts).  We had also booked a valet parking service (taking advantage of a fantastic offer on Groupon) so we simply turned up, unloaded, handed our keys to a man and walked the short distance to the terminal building.  Everything seemed to be going smoothly.  The boarding procedure was smooth, no Ryanair horror stories that you sometimes hear of, although we were glad we paid for priority boarding and before you knew it we had landed at Treviso airport.

Our first car journey was the only slight fly in the ointment.  Trying not to use data roaming I had brought my 8 year old sat nav with 8 year old European maps as a means of navigation.  Also, trying to be skinflints we decided to try to make it to Pra’Delle Torri without going on toll roads.  The sat nav struggled and more than once we found ourselves more than a little lost, a gravel track with precarious drops to either side was probably the hairiest moment before I decided to burn the data and fire up Waze (by far my favourite app!).  It wasn’t long before signs to Pra’Delle Torri appeared and we arrived about an hour later than we thought we would.

First impressions were favourable, even if the caravan that we were to call home for the next ten days was a little tired.  However, as we reflected it was dry, it had beds and a very good shower; there were cooking facilities and even a gas barbecue and the plan was that hopefully we wouldn’t be spending much time indoors – we were on holiday after all!  By the time we had made the beds and unpacked it was late so there was not much time for exploration, we found the nearest restaurant and had our first pizza of the holiday.  After dinner, we checked out the entertainment arena and it doing so discovered one of our favourite parts of the holiday, the crepe and waffle stall.  Nutella Crepes all round!

We woke on Saturday morning to a glorious day, not a cloud in the sky.  However what did we decide to do?  Head to the nearest supermarket to stock up the cupboards.  Before we went on holiday we had told the Baguettes that they could have €20 each to spend on whatever they wanted.  That money must have been burning a hole in the their pockets because they all bought a beanie baby (don’t ask) on that first day; Éowyn bought a rabbit, Amélie an Owl and Ezra a dragon.  We arrived back at the site, put the shopping away and got ready to go to the pool.

This is where the campsite excelled.  There are 4 main pools:  An Olympic sized (50 metres by 21 metres) swimming pool for those that wanted to swim; a half sized Olympic sized swimming pool for those that wanted to swim but can’t swim as well as the ones that were using the Olympic sized swimming pool; a toddler pool replete with a pirate ship in the middle and a lagoon styled pool that coved at least the area of the other three combined.  This became our favourite pool for it was no deep than a metre at the deepest, meaning the Baguettes were never out of their depth, it had six slides, a jacuzzi and a waterfall.  The only downside was that it was not heated and as it was not the height of summer it was a tad on the cold side first thing in a morning.

That first afternoon, though we spent by the pirate pool.  The water was only around 60 centimetres (2 foot in old money) deep although great fun with the slides and the water cannons.  Ezra, however, was not impressed and as the girls frolicked like the mermaids that adorned the prow of the pirate ship, Ezra steadfastly refused to even dip his toes into the water.  Indeed screamed his head off as I carried him around the perimeter of the pool, fearing that I would put him down.  So we sat and played while the girls enjoyed themselves in the water.

The evening began what would become a regular pattern, an earlyish dinner, especially in relation to Italian and Continental habits in general, then head off to the outdoor theatre for the evening entertainment, until Ezra felt tired and either Lucinda or I would take him back to allow the girls enjoy the entertainment a little longer before dragging them back to bed.

That pattern did not establish itself immediately however.  The next day we spent exclusively by the pool – it was a Sunday after all, a day of rest!  But we decided that we would leave the site for our evening meal and headed to the nearby town of Caorle.  Caorle is a small city that attracts tourist from all over the world.  It was founded by the Romans in the first century B.C. and used to be classed as one of the most important cities of the Republic of Venice.  Its old town centre still retains this Venetian feel with its brightly coloured houses separated by alleys and surrounding squares.  Its skyline is dominated by the Bell Tower of the Cathedral of St. Stephen.  It is 48 metres high, cylindrical, topped with a cone-shaped cusp which makes it unique, not only, in Italy but throughout Christendom.  On the promontory by the sea lies another locally famous religious building, the Church of the Blessed Virgin of the Angel.  Overlooking the sea it has had its nave destroyed many times in the past.  Unfortunately, we were not there for the Feast of the Incoronation where there is the ‘fire of the bell tower‘ when, among the celebrations there are fireworks.  Will have to look that one up.  After dinner, we explored the town and found a gelateria and had our first Italian ice cream of the holiday before heading back to Pra’Delle Torri and bed.

Buoyed on by the beauty of Caorle we decided that we would look to explore the area on Monday.  Looking in the guide-book supplied by the site we saw that there was a market on in the nearby city of San Donà di Piave.  So despite the ominous dark clouds on the horizon we drove across Veneto, stopped briefly by a local police checkpoint just outside of Brian (yes, the town of Brian – insert your own Monty Python joke here) before arriving at the city just before noon.  I am not sure what we were expecting, probably a pretty little medieval market town but that is not what San Donà di Piave is.  It is much more industrial than many of the other towns in the area and didn’t have that ye olde world charm we were expecting.  This is probably partly due to the fact that it was completely rebuilt in the 1920’s after most of it was destroyed during World War I and partly due to it being a transport hub of the surrounding district.  It also didn’t help that the market was like any market in the U.K. (we were expecting lots of local produce and artisan goods, not selfie sticks and Angry Birds T-shirts) and by the time we had arrived (about noon) the market was winding down and many of the stalls were packing up.  Nevertheless it saved us some money and instead we decided to look for somewhere to eat before heading back to Pra’Delle Torri.

So after our disappointment of San Donà di Piave (and apologies to anyone that loves the city, I am sure it is very nice, it just wasn’t what we were expecting!) we spent Tuesday on the campsite.  Before heading to the pool (where we stayed all day) we popped into the pharmacy.  Firstly we were running out of factor 50 sun block (we are all pale skinned and so burn easily even if it isn’t that hot) and I had been bitten by mosquitos sometime over the weekend and they were still quite inflamed and quite itchy.  The pharmacist was extremely helpful and spoke perfect English.  She explained that the whole of the Veneto region is basically a swamp and is home to 120 different species of mosquito and so it is not surprising that a) I’d been bitten and b) that I was mildly allergic to its bite.  As I bought my antihistamine cream, mosquito repellent and waterproof factor 50 she explained that my reaction was quite mild compared to a lady that had been in earlier.  Where as my bites were about 2.5cm across, hers were over 25cm across.  That must not have been pleasant!

Next door to the pharmacy was the information office where we had booked a trip to Venice for the next day.  When we had booked it we were warned that unless there were sufficient numbers the trip would not go ahead and to inquire on Tuesday for further information and/or a refund.  Unfortunately it was the latter.  The campsite was quiet, I can only assume that although it was half term in the UK, other European countries were not on holiday and so there was not the interest and our money was returned.  We would have to make our own way there if we wanted to go.

You will have to wait for part ii for the answer to that question. In the meantime please enjoy a selection of photos from the holiday below.  If these are not enough for you head to the Flickr page where there are over 500!

Peace and Love

Baggie

The Football Season draws to a close

Again, this update has been delayed due to life (and work) getting in the way.  Time is precious and the weather has been glorious (for three days at least) and so many things get pushed to the sidelines, and one of those things is this website.  However, nigh on a month is far too long to keep you, dear readers, waiting for a debrief of the latest shenanigans of the Bagnalls, so I shall keep you no longer.

The last time I sat down to regale you with our news the children were yet to return to school from their Easter holiday break, and now we find ourselves a few weeks shy of the half term break.  So, what have we been doing and how are Baguettes enjoying the final term of this school year?

It has to be said, that we have not been resting on our laurels, indeed the girls have a more active social life that either Lucinda or me, and probably a more active life that I have ever had (cue the violins!).  This is in no small part due to the fact that the girls’ school has a plethora of after (and pre-) school clubs that cover a wide variety of interests.  At the start of each term you put your name in the hat against the clubs that you are interested in and with luck you will get into the club that you want.  We gave the girls a full choice of clubs to join, put their names against them and fortunately they both got the clubs that they wanted to join.

The first club of the week is non-school related, however, for it is the joys of Brownies for Éowyn at the local Church hall.  She thoroughly enjoys Brownies even though none of the other girls that attend actually go to her school; it is therefore a completely different circle of friends which we think is good for Éowyn, as it develops her social skills, not that they need too much honing.  Most of the girls attend the local Catholic school where Ezra attends pre-school.  It is quite nice that when we drop Ezra off there that some of the girls that go to Brownies are really excited to see Éowyn.  It is a busy start to the week for Éowyn; Brownies finishes late on a Monday evening and Tuesday mornings before school is her first school club of the week: Choir.  Yes, choir.  Anyone that knows our first born will know that she has inherited her delicate, dulcet tones from her father and so it is quite surprising that she has managed to hold on to her place.  Can’t wait for the feedback at the end of term.

There is then a bit of a gap before both girls attend then next school clubs on a Friday afternoon.  Éowyn at performing arts (much more fitting to her personality and inherent skills) and Amélie at dance.  Indeed, as the beginning of the week is busy for Éowyn so Friday afternoon is the start of a busy twenty four hours for Amélie.  After dance she returns home for a quick bite to eat before her third clothing change of the day and from her dance outfit to her Rainbow uniform.  Seeing how much Éowyn enjoys Brownies Amélie has followed big sister’s footsteps into the world of guiding.  Amélie, who is not old enough to join Brownies (she has another 18 months or so to wait) has joined the local Rainbow pack.

For those of you who are not familiar with the Girl Guiding world, Rainbows is the first step into that world.  Girls aged 5 to 7 can become a Rainbow before joining Brownies (at the age of 7) and then the Guides (at the age of 10).  We had attempted to get Éowyn into Rainbows before she joined Brownies at the end of last year, but unfortunately all the places had been taken and so we learned from this and had Amélie’s name down ready for the first available place.  That place became available as the Easter holiday ended and therefore we were quick to ensure that Amélie went for her taster session.  As we thought she loved it and so subs were paid, uniform is on order and she is now a fully fledged Rainbow and thus both girls are members of the Girl Guiding sorority.

Amélie’s busy end to the working week doesn’t stop with Dance class after school and Rainbows after Dance but continues on Saturday mornings with a short walk to the local leisure centre for swimming lessons.  She is going to be one fit little girl.

The girls’ week of exercise doesn’t end there either.  The local leisure centre runs a Roller Disco every Saturday night.  With a shift pattern that gives me two weekends off out of every three, we have headed through the park to the leisure centre to introduce the girls to the world of rollerskating.  Ungainly and ill-balanced at first the girls have taken to it very well and although they still resemble Bambi on ice they are growing in confidence and thoroughly enjoy skating around the gym.  The first week Lucinda and I were fully engaged in helping them stay upright while Ezra sat on the sidelines, however he didn’t want to be left out and all week asked if he could rollerskate the following Saturday.  All for equally opportunities the following Saturday we obliged.

He didn’t take to it in the same way as his older sisters.  He didn’t like having the skates on (even before he tried to stand up).  I took him to one side of the gym and tried to give him confidence on his wheels, as I had with Éowyn the week before.  He didn’t like it.  He kept saying that he was going to fall, despite my reassurances that he couldn’t fall because Daddy was holding him.  Nevertheless this did not fully reassure him and he got a little more upset crying out ‘Daddy, I’m going to die rollerskating!‘  After stifling a laugh, I thought that perhaps he was not quite ready for rollerskating and carried him to the side of the gym and took his rollerskates off.  We will see if his interest in rollerskating is piqued next time we go.

Ezra seems to have something about dying at the moment.  He said to me one morning, ‘Daddy, I don’t want you to go to work.‘  I explained that I had to go to work and he replied, ‘But Daddy, if you go to work you will die.‘  I asked him why he thought I would die if I went to work.  With his nascent interest in the dark side of the force I am not sure whether his reply was a warning or a threat. ‘Because if you go to work, you will have a car accident and they will not find you because you will fall down a hole.‘  I have been checking my break cables recently.

This may have come from the fact that Ezra has also returned to school and is now doing two full days (plus a half day on a Wednesday).  Thus life is changing for our son.  He is becoming more independent, he is walking everywhere now, rather than being the lazy tyke that he sometimes was and insisting on sitting in a pushchair.  He is interacting with older children at school and although he is used to sharing his space with other children being at school is a different experience.  Nevertheless we are proud of how well he is adapting to full days at school.

The weather since the last update has been a little unpredictable to say the least.  The weekend after the update there were snow showers, followed the weekend after with 27°C (80°F – for our American cousins) and thus the first barbeque of the season.  Indeed we had three very nice days in a row but now the weather has returned to the usual inbetween vernal average.  Regardless, the barbeque has had an airing and therefore will be a regular sight at Chez Bagnall.

With summer weather and Ezra’s new found enjoyment in walking, new shoes needed to be bought.  As anyone with small children will realise, kids shoes are expensive (especially when you need to buy three children shoes at the same time) and they grow out of them so quickly.  All three children were measured for shoes and all three of them a grown so much that new shoes were a necessity.  Let’s hope they last over the summer – I’m not banking on it.

As usual around this time, work is busy.  It is the culmination of many of the sporting seasons, including our biggest client the Premier League.  It has been a fantastic season for the neutral with Leicester City winning the title, and equally fantastic as a West Bromwich Albion fan with Aston Villa relegated.  It is amusing but there is a genuine fear that it will take Aston Villa a long time to regain their former glory, something that in all honesty one doesn’t really want to see for any club.   Villa’s season was poor but I don’t think Spurs’ fans will wish to be reminded about the last day of this season either, however I feel that life long Gooner, Terry Wood, will be smiling from that North Bank in the sky tonight.  (OK, pedants, with Manchester United’s game postponed due to a suspect package it technically wasn’t the last day of the season but it was certainly the last day for the other 18 clubs!)

Coupled with the end of season mania we have had the BBC in the house producing their transmission of the World’s biggest non-sporting live event: The Eurovision Song Contest for the second year running.  Unfortunately, there were no parties at an embassy (unlike last year), no raffles and thus no weekend trip to European cities.  Let us not forget that we are launching two new channels before the end of May and preparing all the upgrades, connectivity and new installs that will occur over the summer.  It is going to be a busy one and you may not see too much of me! (I will get my excuses in now!)

I am not the only one with busy weeks ahead.  Éowyn is in the middle of her Year 2, Key Stage 1, SATS.  KS 1 SATS test the children’s ability in English and Maths.  The English exam is comprised of four tests:  Grammar and Punctuation, Spelling and two Reading papers; while Maths is comprised of an arithmetic and a reasoning paper.  The results of which, are scaled, graded and then rated against the national average, all under the pretence of highlighting where your child might need extra help.  I don’t think that I have ever met a teacher that doesn’t know where the children in their care need extra help.  This is just a way of rating school but all it is doing is putting young children under pressure.  Education is not about passing exams it is about teaching children a variety of skills to help them to find their place in the world.  Performance tables can only give you a narrow view of a child (or a teacher, or a school), luminous beings are we, not this crude matter.  Thankfully, Éowyn’s school have been fairly relaxed with these exams and thus Éowyn has not felt any pressure and we certainly have been playing the importance of these exams down.  Éowyn has been doing really well at school lately, moving up levels in maths and keeping up her record of 10/10 in every spelling test; her hand writing is neat and her reading is fine so whether she can identify if the verb tense is a present perfect or present progressive or what 75% of 60 is, kind of falls into insignificance compared to whether she can identify why someone is upset, why racism is dumb (her words) and inventing games for her and her friends to play.

Éowyn is not the only one who is moving up levels of achievement at school.  Amélie has gone up another level at reading and is now the highest level reader in her class.  Fantastic news of which we are very proud, however, other levels of her education made need some assistance.  Lucinda’s birthday is just around the corner and Amélie decided that mommy might like some Vanish Gold as a present.  I was not ready for the suggestion when she proposed it and let forth a laugh.  This upset Amélie.  I tried to comfort her while I explained that mommy may not appreciate washing powder as a present but her reasoning was not without justification:  it comes in a pink and gold package, so it looks nice and it makes the mommies on the telly happy.  You can not deny the logic!

Logic is not something that can be assigned to the following nugget that may have passed you by.  The Grim Reaper has added a number of beloved personalities to his toll since the last update and the most prominent of which is arguably Prince.  Four years ago I, tongue-in-cheek, suggested that Prince was perhaps a time travelling Maya from the planet Nibiru come to save the world with his purply music, when the 2012 apocalypse did not happen.  Well, if this individual is to believed, that was but a reprieve for Prince’s death heralds the end times.  What is it with religious apocalyptics?  Perhaps they should go back to school and do their SATS!

I think I have preoccupied your time for long enough and I am sure that you are more interested in the latest crop of photos, and there are few hundred extra on the Flickr pages. Therefore, I will bid you adieu and unless I have a car accident and my car falls down a hole I will see you on these pages shortly.

Peace and Love

Baggie

Easter Holidays

This update comes to you a week later than I was planning.  I had planned to update you all about the latest shenanigans of chez Bagnall at the end of the Easter break but somehow I haven’t managed to find time until now to bring you up to speed with our latest news.

After a heavy month at work, including working the Easter weekend I decided to use a couple of days earned in lieu and tagged them around rostered days off to spend a few days with the family in the second week of the Easter holiday break from school.  Work is going to remain busy for the next couple of months so it was a good opportunity to spend some quality time with the family.

The Easter break from school was the usual fortnight.  My break from work was the second week of that vacation so Lucinda had to entertain our children along with childminding wards for the first week of the Easter break.  This included taking them all to Saville Garden to take part in their Easter Egg hunt.  There were not real Easter Eggs to find but clues laid out throughout the gardens and a reward of golden chocolate coins for a completed task sheet .  The cardboard eggs that they needed to collect via questions on said task sheet were not the traditional chocolate eggs that the children usually try to find at this time of year but Dragon Eggs for this was an Easter Dragon trail.  It’s what Easter is all about!

It was also a good opportunity for our N.C.T. group to meet up.  The usual place for meet ups recently is Saville Garden.  It is convenient for all and the kids can pick up sticks and run around in the mud while the mums can amble and catch up.  It is amazing how much the kids still get on with each, I suppose they have known each other for over seven years, even if they don’t see each other as regularly as they should.  It is also amazing how much fun you can have with a stick, something that humans of one species or another have been doing for millions of years.

I missed out on those two events due to work commitments so we needed to make up for it in the second week.  Therefore the first day of my mini-break saw the Bagnalls and Nanny heading south to visit Granddad’s brother and his wife, Uncle David and Auntie Sally in Middleton on Sea.  A short trip East along the shore from Bognor Regis our only previous visit was when we spent a long weekend at Butlins four years previous, a year before Ezra was even born.

We arrived around lunchtime and Auntie Sally has prepared a lovely lunch which stood us in good stead for an afternoon on the beach, which is only a short walk from their house. Lucinda, Uncle David and I played in the sand with the Baguettes while Nanny and Auntie Sally sheltered from the wind in their Beach hut while getting the cake and tea ready for refreshments.  We were lucky with the weather for despite the portentous dark clouds we only had one short sharp shower that wasn’t worth rushing for the hut.

It was a really fun afternoon doing simple things that kept the Baguettes occupied more than the screens that they are becoming increasingly addicted to.  The bracing sea air really cleared the lungs and we all felt better after an afternoon of splashing in rock pools and building sand castles.  Indeed the time when by so quickly that we were surprised how late it had become and after tea and cakes returned to the house for the journey back home.  We will not leave it as long for our next visit!

The following day, Lucinda had two of her clients but we did not let it stop us from enjoying the day.  Éowyn had a playdate at her best friend’s so we headed out with just four children to Ham House taking advantage of our National Trust passes.  The National Trust have begun an initiative to encourage kids to rediscover the simple things of life and the things that kids of previous generations took for granted with their 50 things to do before you are 11¾.  Ham House was helping with this initiative with a large pile of branches from which the kids were encouraged to make a den.  That only entertained our wards for a short while, perhaps they were a little too young.  However, they were more than entertained by one of the other activities, making a kite.  It may have only been made with A4 paper, lollipop sticks and ribbon but the older children really enjoyed making it and then enjoyed running around the gardens attempting to make it fly.  It wasn’t quite Mary Poppins but the look on their faces as we encouraging them to run so that the kites caught in the draft behind them.  We only briefly toured Ham House playing and picnicking in the gardens, enjoying the relatively good weather (apart from one shower).  I think that we will have to go back with Éowyn.

The following two days we had an extra ward so it was not so easy to travel far, but it didn’t stop us leaving the house.  Indeed with a park at the end of the road we headed there to keep the children entertained and our of the house taking advantage of the break between the showers.

The week also saw Éowyn and Amélie having 0900 swimming lessons to try to boost their confidence in the water.  Something that we desperately want them to have and so not only have they completed this week worth of lesson Amélie has been signed up for weekly swimming lessons on a Saturday morning (Éowyn is on a waiting list).  This is really going to give Amélie a busy end to her week.  For not only has she signed up for dancing lessons after school on a Friday, she then will be going to Rainbows later that evening only to have to wake up early on a Saturday morning to go swimming.  She is going to be one fit little girl, who hopefully will want a lay in on a Sunday morning.

Ezra, too, has been taking strides forward in his development.  For at long last he seems to have cracked toilet training.  All other attempts have failed as he just didn’t seem to get the idea of going to the bathroom before he needed to.  However with some persistence from both Lucinda and I and the incentive of a Paw Patrol toy he is now in big boy pants.  For some reason however he insists on being completely naked from the waist down when he goes to the toilet (including his socks) but hopefully this is only a passing phase.  It will be a little embarrassing at the urinals when he his 21!

The other great stage that my children have reached is the fact that they have now watched all three of the original Star Wars movies with Star Wars Episode VI: Return Of The Jedi completing the hat trick.  I now have the dilemma of whether to introduce them to the prequels.

Usually I would leave that there but I feel I have to share this little anecdote with you as I am worried about my son.  While watching Return Of The Jedi, Éowyn cuddled up to me on the sofa saying that she was frightened of Darth Vader as he was scary.  A fair comment I am sure you would agree.  Not Ezra.  He turned to Éowyn and said: ‘Darth Vader not scary, Darth Vader’s the good guy.‘ Now either Ezra is very astute and is looking deeply into the arc of the Star Wars universe or my son is edging towards the Dark Side.  I am fearing the latter.  Two further incidences are adding weight to that notion.

The next morning Ezra is rummaging in the musical instrument box (nothing fancy, just toy musical instruments) and picks out the old favourite:  the recorder.  He starts blowing into it and despite not really playing the instrument the overtones of the Imperial March were coming from him as he strode menacingly across the room.  Then a couple of days later, we are looking through some Star Wars playing cards and Ezra said that he like it when Darth Vader killed the bad guy.  I immediately thought that my son knew what he was talking about and thought of the scene on the second Death Star when Darth Vader despatched the Emperor.  No.  Ezra pointed to the duel in A New Hope between Darth Vader and Obi Wan Kenobi.  I am truly concerned!

Before I leave you, I feel that I have to mention that Friday was the funeral of my friend and colleague Terry Wood.  I think he would have approved of his send off.  A group of us met up at Piebury Corner for pie and mash before heading to Enfield Crematorium.  The service was both moving and funny as I am sure he would have wanted (although the Birdy Song was nowhere to be heard) and it was good to meet his family, if only it could have been in better circumstances.  It was a testament to the man that so many people made the journey on a Friday afternoon and I know a number of people that were devastated that they could not make it.  The word legend is overused but Terry truly deserved that epitaph.  Terry Wood you will be missed.

Peace and Love

Baggie