Where did those three months go?

And so here we stand in April.  Where has the year gone?  For most of the year Lucinda and myself (and Éowyn of course) have been keeping a big secret from all and thankfully the weekend of Mother’s day we were able to share that with you all.  Judging by the speed of the last three months it will not be long before our family of three becomes a family of four.  With such momentous news it was only right and fitting that it was a separate entry and should hog the front page for a couple of weeks. Therefore this update will cover nearly a month and so there are bound to be many omissions, but hey, you’re only here for the photos!  Right?

So what has been happening in the Bagnall household over the last month?  Obviously the Mothering Sunday weekend and following week was dominated by the news that Lucinda is pregnant, this included a flying visit to West Bromwich to let my Mom and sisters know and a meal with Lucinda’s parents to let them know.  Obviously all are delighted, our main concern will be Éowyn.  She will be going from the centre of attention and the apple of Daddy’s eye to sharing that limelight with a sibling.  Éowyn already shows signs of jealously if Daddy is showing attention to others, and woe be tide that Mommy and Daddy have a cuddle: the tears start and she demands to join in for a group hug.  I think that it will be a bit of a juggling act and new skills to be learnt when the new bubba comes along.

Éowyn has already begun to push the boundaries.  She is seemingly entering the terrible twos six months too early.  In some ways it can be quite funny to watch, when she looks around for something to throw and then launches herself on the floor kicking and screaming.  But when you are trying to do something, or go somewhere, or just get her to do something it can be extremely frustrated.  Months of watching Super Nanny on telly somehow still doesn’t prepare you for the tantrums.  In all fairness her tantrums tend to be short lived and she is as good as gold before and afterwards.  Hopefully this phase is over by September and there will be little or no troubles when the new arrival comes along.  I really am clutching to straws there, aren’t I?

As it has been nearly 7 weeks since a detailed update it is quite hard to remember all that we have done (visited a farm, bought new shoes, lots of time around Nanny and Granddad’s, playing with cousins, fun at the childminder’s, fun at home and skyping Nanny Fran).  Hopefully it will not take me 7 weeks before the next update.  By then we will have a new government (we presume) and the airline industry will have gone bankrupt due to the unpronounceably named Eyjafjallajökull volcano in Iceland.  It is a timely reminder from Mother Nature that however powerful we think we are as a species how she can affect so much and cause so much disruption with what is, in essence, a very minor geological hiccup.  Living so close to Heathrow airport (still the busiest airport in terms of international traffic) the effect of a total ban on traffic in UK airspace is dramatic.  The village seems eerily quiet and the skies are not punctured by large aircraft heading for exotic locations.  The sky is clear blue (it has been particularly fine April weather the past week) without the merest hint of a contrail (or chemtrail should you believe the conspiracy theorists).  However, I think that when they return we will really notice the noise levels, the smell of aviation fuel and the great big iron birds in the sky.

While the big iron birds have been conspicuous by their absence the bird life in our little corner of the land has been very noticeable.  The number of species around here is fantastic for an amateur bird watcher like myself.  One in particular has taken a liking to our garden.  As we all know spring is the time when birds nest.  Maybe you have nesting birds in your garden, but I think we are quite fortunate with the species that has decided that it will raise its family 10 feet from our back door.  A mallard had decided that our borders make an ideal nesting ground.  Unfortunately we didn’t notice her at first and we scared her off the nest, which gave us the chance to have a look in at the dozen or so eggs in her down lined bowl on the ground.  We have been very careful since and Lucinda (probably empathising with impending motherhood) has been on duck-watch ever since.  Hopefully most of the eggs will be viable and we should soon see a team of little ducklings.  Duck is probably Éowyn’s favourite bird mainly due to the fact that it is the one bird that she can recognise.

I don’t think that I am going to waffle on too much, but by way of appeasement I have uploaded more than the usual number of photos for your enjoyment and hopefully you will not have to wait quite as long for the next instalment.  A quick mention goes to West Bromwich Albion who will be plying their trade in the English Premier League next season, well done boys, the new bubba will be born supporting a top flight side (Oh yes it will, it has no choice!).

Peace and Love

Baggie

Telly Addict

It seems that winter has finally left our little corner of Albion and spring is in the air (apologies to those of you in the Northern half of our land that are still struggling through blizzards).  Unfortunately I have, as yet, not been able to take full advantage of these vernal days.   In contrast Éowyn has been able to do so with her Granddad in Nan and Granddad’s garden.  In fact she enjoys being out in the garden so much that she refuses to go in to eat her lunch, much to her nan’s dismay.

As I may have mentioned before, Lucinda’s parents live in the same village as us, which definitely has its advantages, one of which is that Éowyn is able to see them often.  She loves to go round and is now able to walk all the way there.  Which is definitely good for my back!  She is certainly becoming little miss independent.  However, she  gets frustrated either because she can not do whatever it is that she is trying to do; we are stopping her doing whatever it is she is trying to do; or she can not get us to understand what it is she wants to do.  I suppose that it is all just part of growing up.

Éowyn has finally discovered the television.  Not something that I particularly wanted her to discover.  She has always enjoyed ‘Deal or No Deal’ but now she has discovered that there are channels devoted only to children’s programmes.  It is the intent of pre-school television programmes to freak out right-minded adults?  I can sort of handle the Waybuloos, even with their freaky form of pipling yoga: yogo.  Chuggington is a Disney-fied Thomas the Tank Engine for a new decade (Éowyn particularly likes the theme tune and sings along with it – Chugga-Chugga-Chugga-Chuggington). But In The Night Garden is just a couple of stops passed freak-ville for me.  I think that there were one too many drug-fuelled nights involved in the conception of that idea.  The episode the other day had the tombliboos climbing about the psychedelic ninky nonk train which travelled really fast and they ended up with no trousers on.  They stepped off a little dizzy and after swapping trousers got on the pinky ponk, where they drank pinky ponk juice and ended up with no trousers on.  And don’t get me started on the haahoos!  I’m not sure if I want my little girl watching this kind of thing.  Bring back the Clangers and Chorlton and the Wheelies!

It is not all Upsy Daisy and Makka Pakka though.  Éowyn has also been taking in a little culture.  As you can see in the photos below she has been to Kew Gardens with the greater-Cathrall clan (I was unfortunately at work) for their Tropical Extravaganza Orchid Festival.  This was the second time that Éowyn has been to Kew Gardens which is two more visits than her dad.  This is even though I once rented a flat in Richmond Upon Thames from which I could see the Pagoda.  It is amazing that when things are on your doorstep that they become a little matter of fact and taken for granted.  I will have to make the effect and pay a visit, especially since I have visited the Eden Project twice and that is the other side of the country!

I do apologise for the dearth of photos once again, but I have not yet succeeded in achieving the correct work/life balance in my new role and Lucinda is not as trigger happy as me.  I will try harder for next time.

Peace and love

Baggie

Growing up, fast

Yet again, work and other factors have prevented me from an update until now.  Yes, nigh on three weeks have passed without word or photo hoisted upon the screen.  We are a very busy family!  Actually that is probably not quite true at the moment.  Lucinda’s and my working days are in opposition at the moment, so we are not seeing a lot of each other and the days off that we do have are, quite rightly, hogged by Éowyn.

Éowyn is going through one of those phases of rapid skill acquisition and development.  I am finding this quite fun.  Since our last update she has learnt:

  • to climb the stairs (not good for a 16 month old) and climb down the stairs (essential considering the first skill);
  • recognise pictures and videos of monkeys and do an impression (ooo-ooo);
  • recognise fish and do an impression (the mouthing of the word ‘bob’);
  • recognise ducks (and say a word that sounds as if she is saying ‘duck’ and ‘quack’ at the same time);
  • understand more complicated phrases such as ‘take your shoes off’ or ‘get your coat’ and action them;
  • eat a whole peeled banana, now refusing sliced banana;
  • and climb onto the settee to sit next to you;

Not bad for three weeks.  She has also used Skype for the first time to ‘talk to” and see her Nanny Fran and Auntie Liz.  I think that Nanny Fran had more difficulties with Skype than Éowyn.  She didn’t really understand it at first (Éowyn not Nanny Fran) and I think was more fascinated by her own video picture in the bottom corner than Nanny Fran and Aunite liz on the big screen.  But soon accepted it as normal and gave Nanny Fran and Auntie Liz a kiss (leaving dribble all over the screen), then made them a cup of tea with her tea set and tried to give it to them.  I think that Nanny Fran really enjoyed it as although she saw a lot of Éowyn over Christmas she has not seen her since 2nd January.  We will have to make amends.

Last week Éowyn caught a slight case of conjunctivitis.  Conjunctivitis is a very contagious disease and so it is imperative to clear the infection quickly, therefore we made a timely trip to the doctors to get a prescription for eyedrops.  Éowyn was incredibly brave, lying down to let you put the drops into her eye, we feared it was going to be a struggle but I think she knew that they were for the best.  Unfortunately our childminder will not take children while the infection is contagious (which is fair) and so Nanny and Granddad came to our rescue.  She thoroughly enjoyed herself especially in the garden with Granddad, to the point of throwing a mini tantrum when Nanny asked her to come in.  She is also a big fan of Harvey (their West Highland Terrier) although he is more nonplussed about her.

During a break in the wet weather we took Éowyn to the garden centre in the village (I know what you are thinking – those adventure seeking junkies!) to take a wander around their extensive pet section (it is cheaper than the zoo!).  They have a wide range of fish, arachnida (Tarantulas and Scorpions to you), lizards, snakes, birds and rodents (rats, guinea pigs, degu, chincilla, gerbils, mice, hamsters, etc) and lagomorphs (rabbits).  She was most interested in the fish (‘bob’) and wasn’t interested in the mammals at all.  I am of the firm belief that it is good for children to have pets, it makes them take responsibility and in the case of the short lived creatures introduces them to bereavement.  However, Éowyn is far too young at the moment and our house is far too small and with our work patterns at the moment it wouldn’t be fair on any pet that we have.  It is far better to play with other people’s pets and pop round the garden centre or zoo when you want to have a look.  Far less messy and much cheaper!

I have not seen much of my daughter these past few weeks so there are not many photos in the update.  I will try harder for next time.  Until then..

Peace and love

Baggie