The Badger Moot 2012 – Part One

As regular readers of this blog will know once a year the descendants of Granddad Badger hire the Puncknowle Manor Estate in the Bride Valley, West Dorset for a week’s holiday and a chance to catch up on all the family news.  It might sound like hell to some families but I think to a man (and woman) the descendants (and partners) of Granddad Badger look forward to the annual pilgrimage to the country.  This year there were even some Badgers there (despite the threat of a Badger cull), Uncle John and Auntie Margaret flew in from Sydney, Australia for the 2012 Badger Moot.

This is the ninth annual moot and I think it gets bigger very year (we, personally have added two new members) and this year there were 20 adults and 7 (and a half) children, which I believe was a record turnout.  Unfortunately not everyone can make it for the the full week (work commitments can get in the way) and I was not exempt from this issue.  Work, as regular readers know, is very busy at the moment and the weekend of the Badger Moot coincided with one of the busiest weekends of the season, and my presence was required in quite a fraught weekend. However with Lucinda still recovering from her appendectomy and our entire support team (i.e. the family) down in Dorset it was not an option for her to stay at home and for us to arrive as a family on the Monday.  Therefore, I took the Friday off and drove the 125 miles or so to Puncknowle.

The holiday officially starts Friday afternoon as we can get into the house from around 3pm so the remainder of the afternoon and evening tends to get eaten up by arriving, unpacking and preparing the evening meal (Thanks Uncle Bill and Auntie Sally) rather than visiting any of the usual haunts and it is an opportunity to catch up on family news.  It is also an opportunity for the cousins to explore the house and set up their dens for the week.  Éowyn has always enjoyed playing with her older cousins and gets excited whenever she gets an opportunity to play with them and her little sister is no different.  So a week of having them ‘on tap’ was a week of bliss for both of our daughters.  And in fairness to the older cousins they are brilliant with both Éowyn and Amélie even if though there is quite a large age gap they involve them in their games and have a huge amount of patience with them.

So just as everyone arrived and begun to settle in I had to wake early on Saturday morning and drive the return 125 miles or so straight to work to put in a full shift.  While I was having a difficult work weekend the remainder of the Badger Clan begun the week of fun.  Saturday morning saw them disperse to various places in the vicinity including the traditional Saturday morning jaunt to Bridport Market to see what bargains lay to be discovered.  Unfortunately for Lucinda Éowyn decided that she didn’t what to really be there and since there was no pushchair seat for her then she was going to play merry hell.  So far from a pleasant mooch around a Dorset street market it became a battle of wills with a four-year old, which I think Éowyn won.

Saturday night saw the first of two fancy dress nights: an Hawaiian theme.  Everyone dressed up a number with genuine Hawaiian shirts bought in Hawaii.  Unfortunately I could not wear mine as I was busy working 125 miles away, well I suppose I could have but it wouldn’t have been the same.  I also missed Uncle John and Auntie Margaret’s Thai Green curry and the traditional quiz night.  This year saw the older generation versus the young generation with age and experience taking the honours.  Due to my ability to absorb trivia I am usually banned from competing in the quiz night and thus have become the family quizmaster putting my general knowledge to good use, although this year may have been different.

Sunday morning saw a very traditional English pastime, indeed during the Middle Ages it was law that every man over the age of 14 should spend 2 hours a weekend supervised by the local clergy doing exactly what had been arranged by Lucy for the Badger Moot 2012.  She had arranged for a morning of archery lessons for the family at the Manor and I was probably more disappointed to miss this than the Hawaiian and quiz evening.  Everyone seemed to have enjoyed it with John and Lucy being the most adept with Lucinda admitting to being one of the worst.  Maybe next time.

Monday afternoon I arrived back in Puncknowle for the rest of the week.  We spent the afternoon round the house before heading to Weymouth for this year’s ghost walk.  In 2009 we took a ghost walk around Dorchester with our guide Alistair dressed in full Victorian regalia.  We enjoyed the way he told the stories, in fact he toned the stories down that night when he realised that he was scaring the kids a little too much, so we booked him again this year for a trip around Weymouth harbour (not Melcombe Regis – we don’t want any misunderstanding on that matter).  He met us at the Boot pub dressed as 16th century pirate and took us for a hike around the sights of the old harbour.  This year the kids were not as scared and Finley challenged him on many aspects of his stories.  Indeed Éowyn joined in the banter, when began to tell us of a submarine shipwreck in the harbour and the ghostly noises heard by divers exploring the wreck.  ‘I know what noises they heard,’ she said, ‘Woo-oo‘ she continued without waiting for an invitation to reply.  We had been concerned that she may get a little scared by the stories and were prepared to leave if it came to it but Éowyn loves her stories and that is exactly how she saw the trip and the anecdote above just illustrates how much she enjoyed it.

Tuesday was my first full day there and so we headed to probably our favourite place in the area: Lyme Regis.  It is a beautiful town on the edge of Dorest with a little sandy beach at the edge of the main pebbly beach.  We bought the girls buckets and spades and after a couple of lessons off Granddad we happily making sandcastles.  As you can see from the photos below it was not exactly pleasant, it was dry which was a bonus, but a little on the cold side so the coats and wellies stayed on.  Tuesday was also our day to cook so we left mid-afternoon to head back to prepare the Mexican themed meal, O.K. Fajitas and Chilli, for the 20 adults and 7 children.

The next day was Halloween and our second fancy dress party of the week.  Everyone put so much effort into the night and their costumes that I have decided that it deserves an update all of its own.  So please click here to read about the day and more importantly look at the many photos of the night.

That left one day of our holiday.  2012 was the year that London hosted the Olympic and Paralympic games but London wasn’t the only venue to host events. Weymouth harbour hosted the off-shore sailing competitions and to take advantage of the expected influx of visitors Sealife built a tower and observation pod at Festival pier to carry up to 69 people 174 feet (53 metres) above Weymouth bay for fantastic views of the area.  The great thing about this attraction for the Bagnall family is that the tower is operated by Sealife, which in turn is owned by the Merlin Entertainments Group which means that we could use our Merlin pass for free entry.  The view from the top is spectacular and we were lucky that it was a bright and clear day and we could see miles of coastline and many of the landmarks of the area.

After lunch we headed to Weymouth’s sandy beach for more sandcastle building and splashing in the sea.  Before we headed for the Manor house and packing up to leave we asked the girls if they wanted a ride on a donkey.  Éowyn was initially up for it but when we got there it was Amélie that was the most excited and Éowyn changed her mind.  So it was Amélie that took a trip down the beach on a donkey and indeed when the ride was over she got all upset thinking that daddy’s three pound meant that she could keep the donkey. ‘My donkey!‘ she screamed as we dragged her from the beach and back to the car.  Cruel parents.

And so our annual trip to Dorset ended with a late night journey back home so that I could return to work on the Friday morning. It is quote often said that you need a holiday to get over a holiday, in many ways it didn’t feel like I got a holiday but nevertheless it was great to spend some time with Lucinda and girls, even if it was a bit of a rush.

Please feel free to click here for the Halloween write up and the photos.

Peace and Love

Baggie

 

The 20 week scan

A second update in a week, that doesn’t happen very often.  A second planned update in a week is even rarer.  But when your first child’s birthday is separated by less than a week from your third child’s twenty week scan then one has no option than to write two separate updates.

With the recent medical scares we have had this scan gained an almost sacred reverence.  We knew that the bubba was alive and kicking after the CVS for we saw him on the scan.  We knew that he was alive and kicking after Lucinda’s appendectomy because we heard his heartbeat.  Indeed with the enforced rest that the appendectomy had given Lucinda she had begun to feel the flutters associated with bubba’s movements.  However even with all this reassurance we both wanted to cast our eyes on the little one and make sure once and for all that these intrusions into his mommy have had no effect on him.

So Tuesday morning we headed to Ashford hospital for our scheduled 20 week scan.  The scan was a little uncomfortable for Lucinda as her operation scar is still healing and therefore still a little tender.  The little one was once again a little wiggler and would hardly stay still for the sonographer.  Just to make it a little harder he was hiding behind the placenta and so really made her work for her money.  The sonographer had, obviously, read Lucinda’s notes and so was aware of the CVS and the appendectomy and so she wanted (as did we) to make a thorough, detailed scan of our baby and although our unborn son tried his hardest to make it as difficult as possible for her she was more than up to the task and quickly completed all the measurements that one would expect at such a scan.

The good news is that all the measurements indicated that our unborn son is strong and healthy and currently weighs around 13 ounces (370 grams).  Despite the invasions into his territory he seemingly has been unaffected and not only have our fears been allayed so have those of the medical profession who now only want to see Lucinda as any normal third pregnancy (i.e. not that often).

The below scan is the latest image of our little one, unfortunately because he was hiding behind the placenta it is not very clear, maybe he is a little camera shy.

Peace and Love

Baggie

Twenty Week Scan
Baguette Number Three, 20 week scan

Éowyn’s Fourth Birthday

So after an unplanned update due to Lucinda’s appendicitis and subsequent appendectomy we are back on track with one of the few updates that are planned years in advance.  The whole raison d’être of this website, or at least it’s initial conception was you keep you, my dear readers, up to date with Éowyn’s progress.  As she was our first child and there were so many of our friends and relatives that are spread across not only the country but the globe too, it seemed the easiest way to ensure you all had a window to glimpse the antics of this branch of the Bagnall family tree.  That was four years ago.  Yes, our oldest child has just celebrated her fourth birthday.

Usually the weeks between Amélie’s birthday and Éowyn’s birthday are quiet and uneventful, this year was far from uneventful however Lucinda’s appendectomy could not have happened at a more fortutious time in terms of either the development of our unborn son and to coincide with a quiet(ish) time at work.  Obviously the most important of the two is the fact that our unborn bubba is seemingly well and healthy (our 20 week scan is in the coming week so stand by for yet another update).  With an international break weekend the number of football matches coming through my work world drops from >70 to around 20 and hence although there are still lots of things to do at work my presence wasn’t as missed as it would have been on a full-on weekend of sport.

However, the five days I had off from work were necessary to look after the family while Lucinda begun to recuperate and just as work did not miss me that much neither did I miss work.  Obviously it is not possible nor practical for me to take off Lucinda’s complete recuperation time off but neither is Lucinda up to looking after the children, this is where living in the same village as the grandparents comes in very handy. So the plan for this past week has been dropping Amélie off at Grandparents, followed by dropping Éowyn off at school.  Then take myself to work.  Granddad has been picking Éowyn up from school, then on my return from work, pick up both girls before heading home and cooking for the family.  Then put the girls to bed and relax!

Wednesday saw Éowyn actual birthday.  She was allowed to open some of her presents before school and insited on wearing one of her new dresses and another of her birthday pressies: a tiari and magic wand.  This was the first birthday that Éowyn has spent at school (last year we took her to Peppa Pig World, something we should perhaps try and squeeze in before the end of the year) and was also the first of my children’s birthdays I have spent at work.  However I did manage to make it a short day and get home before rush hour to take Lucinda to Nanny and Granddad’s for a birthday dinner and a muppet themed birthday cake.

Éowyn really enjoyed being the centre of attention and made Nanny light the candles three times so that she could blow them out, again, again and again.  We got home and opened the rest of her presents and she seemed incredibly pleased with everything she got, indeed telling Lucinda, ‘Mommy, this is the best birthday ever.‘  It is nice to know that a home cooked meal with Nanny and Granddad and some presents surpassed the trip to Peppa Pig World from last year!  Will it always be like this?  I doubt it.

The week continued in the same vein, with Lucinda recovering well but still not strong enough to look after the kids, me at work and Lucinda’s parents looking after Amélie each day and Éowyn after school.  As the week wore on the strain of looking after two young kids was becoming more deeply etched on Nanny and Granddad’s faces and although they would never say anything I decided that an alternative needed to be found for the weekend, especially since I would not be able to get out of work early on either Saturday or Sunday to help put the girls to bed.  Call in Nanny Fran.

Lucinda’s parents live within a two minute walk, Nanny Fran lives a two hour drive away.  Lucinda’s parents are retired, Nanny Fran retires at the end of the year so getting Nanny Fran involved take a little more organising.  So Friday saw a similar start to the day as had happened all weeklong.  Amélie at Nanny and Granddad’s, Éowyn at school, then a 15 mile drive to work.  I got out of work a little early and then picked up the girls from Nanny and Granddad’s.  Back home for roast chicken, then get the girls ready for bed, pop them in the car and then a two hour drive to West Bromwich.  I got to Nanny Fran’s just before 10pm and put the sleeping girls straight to bed.  They were now in Nanny Fran (and Auntie Liz’s) care.

Woke up the next morning, said goodbye to the girls (who seemed to be very excited to be on an adventure at Nanny Fran’s) and drove the 130 odd miles to work.  It seemed very strange to head back to home with just Lucinda there (and to drive a car with no child car seats in the back).  Obviously it was nice to see my wife but the house seemed oddly empty without the girls, even though had they been there then they would have been asleep.  It was also strange to get an uninterrupted night of sleep, I can not honestly remember the last time that happened.  Then back to work on Sunday for me while Nanny Fran brought them back down Sunday afternoon.

Not sure who had more fun at Nanny Fran’s, Éowyn and Amélie, or Nanny Fran and Auntie Liz.  From the photos and the stories probably Nanny Fran and Auntie Liz just edged it.  At least next year when Nanny Fran has hung up her last file of photocopying then there can be lots of adventures for the girls (and the new addition to the Bagnall family) in West Bromwich!  Indeed when I asked Éowyn if she wanted to go back with Nanny Fran, she became all excited.

Hopefully Lucinda will carry on recovering as well as she seems to be and so the reliance on Nanny and Granddad (and Nanny Fran and Auntie Liz) not to mention the extra taxiing and workload that I am carrying will lessen.  You realise when something like this happens just how much teamwork is involved in raising kids and looking after a house, especially since the majority of that side of the family tasks is done by Lucinda as I tend to be at work up to 6 days a week (oh, for the correct six numbers this week!).  You also realise how precious life is and how quickly it can be put in danger.  It puts in perspective what is important in life and what is just flimflam and although no doubt the flimflam will begin to creep up in pseudo-importance over the next few months, I just hope we can both remember what this episode has taught us and hopefully it will also help you to realise the flimflam in your own lives.

Peace and Love

Baggie